In this interactive session, we will focus on meaningful engagement with each individual client – building rapport and understanding that will help you support clients when they’re both in the room.


You will leave this course inspired to offer productive individual pre-mediation sessions that leave clients feeling more open and less reactive, without worrying about how this will impact their sense of your neutrality.

• Introductory video: Why individual pre-mediation meetings are so vital

• Creating the environment for reflection and openness – for all client “types”

• Explaining your role – without too much “telling”- and ensuring understanding

• More asking, less telling – how this supports client learning

• Noticing and responding to defensiveness

• Managing any “tugs” on your neutrality

Written Materials


• Checklist for individual client meetings

• Tips for explaining your role and managing tugs on neutrality

• The learning theory that supports individual client meetings

• A mediation model that works in relational conflict 


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